no s2m sign-up confirmation

I have been working on this all day and have read all the posts I could find here and can't fix this.
I am using s2m + paypay subscription button + aweber for list membership and delivery of a newsletter.
Paypal Subscription button works, then they receive a Paypal confirmation and a second one saying they have set up recurring payments. I also am notified.
Then they are redirected to my Member Welcome Page.
I am missing how to send them the registration page.
I tried to change my Welcome Page into a registration page by placing the registration link on it, and that worked, but then they come back to the same page again...
I also have no idea why they are not being put into my list with Aweber. I did set the Parsing. Is there a sequence to this? Did I have to be sure I set the Parsing before creating the button?
Any assistance is appreciated.
I am using s2m + paypay subscription button + aweber for list membership and delivery of a newsletter.
Paypal Subscription button works, then they receive a Paypal confirmation and a second one saying they have set up recurring payments. I also am notified.
Then they are redirected to my Member Welcome Page.
I am missing how to send them the registration page.
I tried to change my Welcome Page into a registration page by placing the registration link on it, and that worked, but then they come back to the same page again...
I also have no idea why they are not being put into my list with Aweber. I did set the Parsing. Is there a sequence to this? Did I have to be sure I set the Parsing before creating the button?
Any assistance is appreciated.