SSL redirect to subdomain

Hey folks – my host has informed me that they can only install an SSL cert on a distinct IP from my main domain, so they had to use a subdomain *secure.my domain.com). Unfortunately, this means that the SSL redirect custom field in S2Member doesn't cut it, as it only changes 'http' to 'https' using the primary domain.
When I try to access the site directly using the 'secure.mydomain.com' address, WP simply kicks me back to the primary domain, I suppose sensing that the site was loaded using a different domain, perhaps for security reasons.
I guess what I'm looking for is two things:
1) a way to have s2Member do a secure redirect to the subdomain;
2) a way to keep WP from kicking me out of said subdomain.
Anyone know a way around this?
Thanks!
When I try to access the site directly using the 'secure.mydomain.com' address, WP simply kicks me back to the primary domain, I suppose sensing that the site was loaded using a different domain, perhaps for security reasons.
I guess what I'm looking for is two things:
1) a way to have s2Member do a secure redirect to the subdomain;
2) a way to keep WP from kicking me out of said subdomain.
Anyone know a way around this?
Thanks!